Mark here.
We’ve all heard the advice:
“Find your passion, and you’ll never work a day in your life.”
It sounds great, right?
But here’s the truth—
they never tell you how frustrating it can be to actually find that one thing.
Sometimes, the search itself becomes an endless loop.
You’re left feeling like you’re not doing enough,
not feeling “lit up” enough,
and not on the right path
because you haven’t discovered that magical passion
that’s supposed to make everything fall into place.
But here’s the curveball:
What if chasing a single passion isn’t the key to fulfillment?
How This Played Out in My Life
Early in my life,
my passion was clear—
I wanted to be on the football field,
playing in the NFL.
That was my world.
But after my NFL days,
I found myself in a place that might sound familiar.
I had no clue what I was supposed to be passionate about next.
Should I keep chasing the same kind of thrill?
Should I be searching for something
that gives me the same high?
As a game-winning touchdown?
I didn’t have an answer.
Eventually, I realized something game-changing.
Fulfillment wasn’t about finding a single,
all-encompassing passion.
It was about exploring different paths, being curious,
and letting new interests emerge
without the pressure of labeling them as my “passion.”
Take mountaineering, for example.
I never set out to become a mountain climber.
I didn’t wake up one day with a deep, burning “passion” to summit Everest.
I simply got curious. I thought, “What if?”
And that curiosity turned into a journey
that taught me resilience, pushed my limits
and opened up new worlds I’d never imagined.
How to Apply This in Your Life
So, if you’re feeling lost because you haven’t found your one big “passion,”
here’s a different approach:
1. Start with Curiosity, Not Certainty
Instead of putting pressure on yourself
to find that one thing you love,
let yourself explore freely.
Follow small interests—
even if they don’t seem significant at first.
Sometimes, passion emerges after you dive into something, not before.
2. Allow Yourself to Be Multi-Passionate
You don’t need to pick just one thing.
It’s okay to enjoy a variety of interests and pursuits.
I’m living proof that you can be passionate
about sports, adventure, business, and personal growth all at once.
3. Find Value in the Experience, Not Just the Destination
When I was climbing Everest,
it wasn’t just about reaching the summit.
It was the daily grind, the lessons learned,
and the incredible people I met along the way
that truly mattered.
Focus on the journey—
what you’re learning and who you’re becoming.
Why It Works
Dropping the quest for a single passion opens up your life.
In ways that pure focus on “finding your passion” never could.
It’s about enjoying the process, embracing each interest as it comes,
and seeing where it takes you
without the pressure of needing it to be your life’s purpose.
Let’s put this into action.
This week, pick one small interest you’ve been curious about,
even if it doesn’t seem like a “big deal.”
Dive in, explore, and let yourself enjoy it
without the pressure of making it your life’s passion.
Ask yourself:
What can I learn from this experience?
How does it make me feel?
And remember—
life’s richness often comes not from a single, all-consuming passion,
but from the curiosity to explore many paths.
Best,
Mark
